im married, and yes it has ups and downs but i guess you have to work through it all. Known my husband for 11 yrs now but have been dating since 2003, got married in 2004 and been together ever since. brwn_eyes my parents have also been married for 32 yrs now and yes thats exactly what i want in my life, someone who knows you like the back of their hand and trust you completely and in return give them the respect love and dedication they deserve.

soy's ladiie wrote: brwn_eyes my parents have also been married for 32 yrs now and yes thats exactly what i want in my life, someone who knows you like the back of their hand and trust you completely and in return give them the respect love and dedication they deserve.

:yup: I know...it just sounds great to me! I see how happy my parents are together and if i can be half that happy when i'm married....i couldn't ask for anything more!!!

brwn_eyes wrote:

soy's ladiie wrote: brwn_eyes my parents have also been married for 32 yrs now and yes thats exactly what i want in my life, someone who knows you like the back of their hand and trust you completely and in return give them the respect love and dedication they deserve.

:yup: I know...it just sounds great to me! I see how happy my parents are together and if i can be half that happy when i'm married....i couldn't ask for anything more!!!

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I just recently got myself into another relationship. I was single for 6 months and then 3 years before that. I love my freedom and that is the reason why I ended my last relationship. But something is different with this new victim, lol.

Call me old fashioned, but I would like to get married someday. I guess it's for the same reason ladiie explained. My family is big on marriages and for the exception of one uncle (who's reason is excusable), all my uncles and aunts are married and have never divorced. I know in these times marriage is nothing like what it used to be and that is why I wouldn't marry right away. I would take my time until the right person comes along. I'm in no rush, but I hope I can find a guy who would want to marry me in return.

Ive been married for a year and a half. My advice, live together before you choose to marry that 'special' someone. You dont know someone untill you smelled their shit

Also, its a lot of work. You know, yelling, disagreeing, compromising and sacrafising. If your not a team player or if your the 'independant' type, marriage is probably not the best option.

i aint married and i ont plan to get married til i completely finish school....but my boyfriend is tryin to get a lil bit ahead of me

he gave me an engagement ring for christmas

A wonderfully complex subject, made simple." Most single people, dream of being married. And most married people, dream of being single!"


The Night Wind Has Spoken!LOL! :rosa:

50% of all marriages are destined to fail. So you all might as well get divorced now and save the hardship to any future children.

SD nessa okay i'm jealous! i love callifornia SD is beautiful *sigh*

now back to the subject lol i'm just trying to get a decent date so i am wayyy
far off from marriage..... hmmm i'm doing something wrong but scared to find
out what :(

GG_Drea wrote:SD nessa okay i'm jealous! i love callifornia SD is beautiful *sigh*

it was cold today. high sixties/ low seventies...sun was shining the whole time though.

i'd be jealous too

fsolis wrote::cool: A wonderfully complex subject, made simple." Most single people, dream of being married. And most married people, dream of being single!"


The Night Wind Has Spoken!LOL! :rosa:

Rub it in SDx !!!!