Together 15 years next month, and we haven't talked mirage, oops ....um marriage for at least the last thirteen. I think we're happier this way. Keeps you in line better to IMO. You have plenty of time to try to kiss ass and make up during a divorce, but if you're not married he/she can be gone in as long as it takes to pack the shit. Makes ya think twice before you say or do something feckedup yaknow?

I know this is old but I'm gonna post anyways

I'm currently in a long term relationship. I'm actually engaged. Me & my boyfriend are only 20 years old though. We have been together going on 3 years. We never talked about marriage, maybe like once or twice. And we both had the same opinion that there is no rush to it. If it's meant to be always & forever, then it will be. Married or not. A piece of paper doesn't determine the relationship and how long it will last. Then he did the whole romantic ordeal and proposed to me (yes i'm a hopeless romantic). Basically swept me off my feet. And I love him so I said yes. But we haven't set a date yet, because we're not rushing into it. We feel we're going to be together forever, so that means there's no rush at all. We have our whole lives to pick a day :)

ur1nonly wrote:^ ay chicano
i would really like to know what happened, u know get the chisme! j/k but whatever, i just hope u feel better soon. at this age being single is cool, imo, just dont think about it too much and u'll feel better

It's really hard not to think about it, especially when you're in love with that person. If you really want to know....lets just say....she couldn't handle a long term relationship.

^^^ don't sweat it carnal I've been there before it just takes time heal thats probably not what you wanted to hear, buts its true....

Well Im single i mean dam its hella hard ahora..cuz it hapend the wrong way..But it was a10 mes relationship and we never talked about mariage..I think marrage is a good thinng because of many reasons..

Dam chicano I kno how u feel, Like I see all these couples walking around la escuela and I start getting all sad otra vez...But everything happens for a reason.so just hold on u kno and ur perfect mujer will come to you..

chicano wrote:Thanks for bringing it u, now I can update my status.

Currently single, been about 3 weeks. So far hating it, and just missing the ex but I know I can move on. Hate being single because there is no one there by your side to talk to. Oh well, all things happen for a reason.

Sorry to hear that Chicano....I know its hard pero....you know your not all that bad, I'm sure you can find a girl really quick...at least for a re-bound! lol...just kidding....It seems like you loved her alot... so, I aint going to lie, its going to take time to heal and move on! But I would say your young and can be out doing what you like to best "raving" lol...enjoy the time that you have to heal and for yourself and who knows you might run into someone without loooking and those are always the best, finding love when not looking for it! Best of luck and keep your head up!

chicano & chicanas3xy13,if you guys are patient, true love will someday come into your lives. I know a lot of couples that on the street they will tell you that everything is fine with them. But behind closed doors they fight like cats and dogs, sleep in separate beds, AND LAMENT SILENTLY,that they made a BIG MISTAKE,AND ARE NOT WITH THE RIGHT PERSON FOR THEM! You guys ARE VERY LUCKY TO BE SINGLE,AND NOT IN A DEAD MARRIAGE! Please read up on how to find a "soulmate." ANYONE, can get into a RELATIONSHIP or get into a MARRIAGE, But what a person really needs is "THE PERFECT MATCH," for themselves. That is why you guys need to be patient and strive for a GREAT MATCH,because like every married person knows. You do not really even KNOW a person until you have lived with them at least a few years,! Sadly, the truth is too many people make the mistake of "ASSUMING," they are with the right marriage partner, before marriage!This is why you have so many unhappy people "IN RELATIONSHIPS," and so much DIVORCE! HAPPY HUNTING :rosa:

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