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lokitz_559 · by **lokitz_559** on Mon, Dec 03 2007, 12:44 PM

I moved in with my boyfriend. he has a 4yr old son. he still sleeps with my boyfriend and my boyfriend expects me to sleep in the same bed with the both of them. to me its just a lil weird. but wat bothers me a lil bit is the fact that hes 4 and he still sleeps in the same rm. maybe its just me, but shouldnt he be sleeping in his own bed. i just think that my boyfriend babys his son 2 much. there are a few things that i dont think he should be doing with him still. i just need sum opinions.....plz help me

Pika_Guerita · by **Pika_Guerita** on Mon, Dec 03 2007, 2:13 PM

Oh man, thats going to be hard habit for you to EVEN TRY to break. My son sleeps with me and hes 2 years old! You know, you guys should have talked about this BEFORE you moved in together. Beside how are you going to try and change it now, after YOU knew and accepted it before you moved in! GOOD LUCK! :paz:

cchwnn · by **cchwnn** on Mon, Dec 03 2007, 4:21 PM

well i would tel this man look its our room and homer needs to sleep on his own bed or else. you can alway move into the kids room and let both of them live thier little lifes over there. i know it doesnt sound well but what can i say..

look into his eyes an ask him what do yo see wwrong with this picture. my god i hope he doesnt expect his kid to see you in yor kinky clothes does he? hell no.. so put it this way i married you and your son came with the deal but not to spend the nights with both of them. my god.

cchwnn · by **cchwnn** on Mon, Dec 03 2007, 4:23 PM

its never never tooo late..

ur1nonly · by **ur1nonly** on Mon, Dec 03 2007, 10:32 PM

oh now i see that he has a son. yea like erica said, hard habit to break but yea like this guy up here said too, u knew he came with the package but he doesnt belong in his bed anymore. i guess it was alright before when u werent there but now, he has to see that only u and him belong on that bed, not his kid, not no one else, especially if that kid isnt urs. what does he say about it? how does he feel about making his son sleep in his room or at least in another place? is he upset about it o que?

caker · by **caker** on Tue, Dec 04 2007, 10:37 AM

:doh!: This is a whole 'nother ball game now. By saying yes to him you are accepting him son and 'momma drama' (as put in the other thread) and all. You don't say yes to him but no to this and maybe to the other. Knowing he has a son that is something the 2 of you should've discussed before you moved together or get married, BEFORE anything else. The son is there, package deal and all. You can't expect to go in and change everything overnight, or you'll have major problems! Rene and I have always had at least 1 relative living with us and it sometimes gets hard to adjust to each others ways, much less to someone else's way. Sit down and talk about it, voice your concerns and listen to his, try to come to an agreement, make your decision and make the best of it. If you feel this isn't what you thought it was going to be, then NOW is the time to say so before you can't get out. But if you think you can handle it, then make it clear you have his everyone's best interest at heart and that you need his support and offer him yours. Good luck :turu:

Normies · by **Normies** on Tue, Dec 04 2007, 5:29 PM

well if you like having sex you can throw that one out the window.

yall ever heard, "fue a Guatemala y llegÃ³ a Guatepeor" .wave.

Pika_Guerita · by **Pika_Guerita** on Tue, Dec 04 2007, 5:41 PM

Normies wrote:well if you like having Å ex you can throw that one out the window.

yall ever heard, "fue a Guatemala y llegÃ³ a Guatepeor"

:LMAO:

Thats too funny!

ur1nonly · by **ur1nonly** on Tue, Dec 04 2007, 10:57 PM

lol lo de guatemala is very true..... but i think if u acceptd him with a kid, doesnt mean u have to accept all three of u sleeping together. my guess is that if he sleeps with him now that hes only 4, what about when hes 8? if the habit isnt broken now, then it will be even harder later on. but yea if u like sex, like normies says, u can throw that out the window.

Normies · by **Normies** on Wed, Dec 05 2007, 9:17 PM

:buaha:

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