fsolis wrote::cool: I guess what you guys mean,is the person you love or loves you, went to bed with someone else. Lets see, everyone has self determination, if there was no gun pointed at them, I would say that as an adult of sound mind they made a conscious decision, to do the nasty deed. Aided an abetted by the other guilty party. But of course, they both could have just said no! Honor and trust between couples is a very important thing, especially if other people, like people that don't like you, for example, find out about the affair, and snicker, and make a jokes of the betrayal, behind your back.Also with aids and other sexually transmitted diseases so prevalent in our society today, one wrong sexcapade, and you not only, killed yourself, but also the person you once said you loved! Being that many people seem to go to bed so quickly with someone they have just met,(no common sense), I would have to say that the person(s) who is married or in a serious relationship must decide for themselves or together with the guilty nincompoop, just what action should be taken because of the betrayal. Just remember adultery even in the Bible, can be a reason for divorce!