Cheating can you forgive?

almarosa · by **almarosa** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 10:18 AM

Can you forgive someone who admitted cheating on you? or may be true that "once a cheater, always a cheater"

lucky-u · by **lucky-u** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 10:22 AM

YES, u can forgive & be forgiven. in my expereince, it seems to be true.

SHADCHA · by **SHADCHA** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 12:10 PM

You can always forgive, but never forget .....and a trust issue will always be there...."Fool me once, shame on you....Fool me twice shame on me"......

lunar · by **lunar** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 1:12 PM

Forgive? sure! but trust is a huge deal for me. I may still love the person and care a lot about them but once that trust is broken, there's no turning back~

Ms.pisces · by **Ms.pisces** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 2:06 PM

SHADCHA wrote:You can always forgive, but never forget .....and a trust issue will always be there...."Fool me once, shame on you....Fool me twice shame on me"......

I agree with SHADCHA on this one . . . . .

chicana323scla · by **chicana323scla** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 2:28 PM

No I don't think I could ever forget or forgive! I would never do it so I expect the same from him... That would be it for me and he knows it...

elchicano · by **elchicano** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 2:29 PM

yeo ms pisces lets cheat together ;)

caker · by **caker** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 4:08 PM

Forgive--yes, how can I ask for forgiveness if I myself cannot or will not forgive. It will take time, but yeah, forgive someone, yes. Now whether you trust the person again-that's a matter of personal decision, imo. What's your take almarosa?? :jumm:

Pika_Guerita · by **Pika_Guerita** on Mon, Jan 28 2008, 4:21 PM

Forgive yes...I do think that the relationship will have to go through alot of changes...and renew it all over again and work those issues that needed help! And with the changes forget, but once you forgive and forget, you should never bring it up again...Does that make sense? :jumm: