If you were in a relationship and you had sex witgh the same sex would it be cheating?

Of course! Now if you were to have sex with an ant, lets say,then that would be a totally different story! But then I guess it also depends on whether you knew you were having sex in the first place! I mean like, both you,and the person you were in bed with, could have just been trying out a brand new yoga position!LOL!

^^ LOL@ ant now come on nothing is going into her vagina so how could it be cheating? Unless the girl had a penis

Okay thanks guys

I don't know, I am usually around ladies who have ladies as their partners, at college, and boy most of them will get pissed as hell if they even think,that your trying to make a pass at their partner! But I guess also it depends on their particular beliefs also.some people think that if you just look at someone else you are already having sex with the person. Then again some people go to bed with others of the same sex,and their partners are alright with it,so it just depends. But to answer your question, there are many ways to fulfill the sex act!

You are around lesbians all the time Okay I get what you are saying

Yes at the college I attend there are quite a few women who go with women, And men who go with men. I grew up on the streets of the city,so it takes a lot to impress me. Besides I'm a bleeding heart liberal,who believes in live and let live,and respects all peoples rights to self determination, LOL!

[quote="SHADCHA"]Cheating is Cheating....be it a guy or a girl....Be it that you are Hetro, Bi, Homo.......Its still cheating.....If you are having sex with any one other than your partner then its cheating...plain and simple. [/quote


Gotch you

Just remember that most our points of view are formed from a western perspective,to suit the culture we live in,so as to address this particular situation. For example a man who has ten wives, and seven mistresses in Arabia would see things in a totally different way,as would his ten wives and mistresses! Or in some parts of Africa,where it is admirable for a woman to have multiple sex partners (lovers). Or even in a culture where partners of the same sex see having several relationships as acceptable,or even to be encouraged. There we may encounter points of view,that may be drastically different from our own, LOL!

How could a women want to be with a man that had 9 wives? But I am sure a man would think he was in heaven