Sounds like you two have trust issues. Maybe Marriage is not the right thing to get into right now...

well were startin to go to pre-marital counseling to work out the issues and see wat the pastor thinks

Make a list first of all.
How many brides maids will there be?
How many peeps including parents y padrinos wil be paying for different things and then you can set a theme
Find the location, and then call around and set prices
what are your recuerdos going to be?
Flowers? Decide on fresh or artificial
Pick a color for your dress and stick to it. Davids bridal.com always has good dresses brand name at really good prices
Get together with the girls and set a color for them.
Find out what food you are going to serve and then start shopping around.
And congrats!

there are 3 bridesmaids, we arent having anyone pay for it.....i've found a place but they never called me back, ive decided on artifical flowers for the tables decorations and lil box with candy for our favors....havent really thought of anything else. im having a problem pickin a color and stickin to it.....

lokitz_559 wrote:there are 3 bridesmaids, we arent having anyone pay for it.....i've found a place but they never called me back, ive decided on artifical flowers for the tables decorations and lil box with candy for our favors....havent really thought of anything else. im having a problem pickin a color and stickin to it.....

So, pick 2 or 3 colors....My prima is planning her wedding and she has 3 colors plus white of course....theres no problem with having more than one color.