Have You said i love you and thought you said it too soon?

EL_GENERAL_REV. · by **EL_GENERAL_REV.** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 10:56 AM

Ok well Ifve been going out with this one beautiful smart lovable girl for three weeks now and im really really happy but yesterday i told her i loved her and i took me a while to say it i was going to tell her a few days before but I kinda didnt have the Cajones to say but I think I said it too soon you know becuase after that I became very hard for me to say it to her again like i wasnt being honest or something Like I was going to lie.

iPedro · by **iPedro** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 11:07 AM

'love' messes everything up, lol. but to answer your question, yes, I've said the "L" word probably too soon in a relationship. It's the novedad of a relationship that makes you feel that way sometimes.

George Lopez on the "L" word. :cool:

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Lonewolf · by **Lonewolf** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 11:13 AM

Sometimes when you say "love you" that scares them away quick

Pika_Guerita · by **Pika_Guerita** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 1:33 PM

Well I don't know what kind of ladies you be talking about ^^ but I think love is a wonderful thing. Don't say it if you don't mean it. Love is a very meaningful word and love does take time...and 3 weeks...I don't know I guess in my eyes thats alil to soon. Maybe you should of explained alil more on how you feel about her. I guess what I'm trying to say is love is a complicated word that needs explaining when said to a person. z::

MiszJoker602 · by **MiszJoker602** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 2:39 PM

Gotta agree w/ Erica on that one... it's a powerful and meaningful thing. If you don't mean it, or have any sort of doubts.. then don't say it. 3 weeks is pretty soon. In the relationship I'm in now (which I've been in for 2 years) it took us a few months to say "I love you" and he said it first. z::

MAKAVELY · by **MAKAVELY** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 3:24 PM

NEVER SAY IT IF YOU DONT MEAN IT.TO LIKE SOME BODY DONT TAKE TIME BUT TO LOVE IT IS ANOTHER DIFERENT HISTORY.

Tx_2_Id · by **Tx_2_Id** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 5:32 PM

I never say it unless I really mean it......so when you hear it come from my mouth its serious.

iPedro · by **iPedro** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 8:10 PM

Just say "te quiero ( mucho )" it let's everyone breathe a little. it can be interpreted in however you two are feeling at the moment. saying "te quiero" is like universal. form family members, to deep love, to friends etc..

It can be as innocent as "luv ya" or the difference between "I love you" and "I'm in love with you"

Algo asi.

Tx_2_Id · by **Tx_2_Id** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 8:14 PM

Very true pete a phrase with a thousand meanings.

ladiesmilez · by **ladiesmilez** on Thu, Apr 10 2008, 8:15 PM

iPedro wrote:Just say "te quiero ( mucho )" it let's everyone breathe a little. it can be interpreted in however you two are feeling at the moment. saying "te quiero" is like universal. form family members, to deep love, to friends etc..

It can be as innocent as "luv ya" or the difference between "I love you" and "I'm in love with you"

Algo asi.

TRUE TRUE TRUE

chicano · by **chicano** on Fri, Apr 11 2008, 4:43 AM

Today the word "love" is extremely overrated in relationships. Some kids just say "I love you" even if they don't mean it, why? Well because it might make that other person feel good. I've never said "I love you" to another girl unless I've truly meant it. Kids these days say it just because it's something right to say after the end of a phone call or "kickin' it". As for the whole saying the "L" word a little too soon, I wouldn't say it right away because after all..you might end up scaring that person away, so before you say that magical word...give it time..don't rush into things. You never know, what you're feeling might be lust and once you say you love them...theres no turning back. Make sure you know what you're feeling homie, trust me..lol. You don't want to end up looking stupid in the end... :cool:

MAKAVELY · by **MAKAVELY** on Fri, Apr 11 2008, 10:12 AM

MAY BE YOU NEED TO USE SPANISH WORDS ONE IS "TE QUIERO" LIKE EL WEY JUARACHES SAID "saying "te quiero" is like universal. form family members, to friends etc.." THE OTHER ONE IS "TE AMO" THAT IS USED WHEN YOU ARE REALY IN LOVE :paz:

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