SEPARATION

ur1nonly · by **ur1nonly** on Mon, Jul 21 2008, 10:06 PM

Nick Nack wrote:Fuck a "seperation".

mmmmkay, why would u say that?

raven116 · by **raven116** on Mon, Jul 21 2008, 11:39 PM

Lonewolf wrote:So what I'm understanding from some of your reads is that a separation is a time to reflect, and no trying out with someone else is permitted, right?

Umm yeah!
Seperation works if both persons state that this is going to be a reflection time. Meaning they are taking this time to really do INVENTORY! Taking and embracing culpability and accopuntabil;ity for any wrong they may have contributed to the deconstruction to the relationship.
Looking or stating falling for another or sleeping with another is a falsehood!
I am going to throw myself out there as an example.
I fell in love very young and married young to me imo..at 21 ...he was in the military I knew the demands of the job...it meant moving alot and having to stay behind alot (If he was stationed in demilitarized zones_) which he was and I stayed behind.
I was the perfect wife, I kep the financial ned, worked p/t and used this time to get my college degree and seldom went out...I took care of our son however he could not do the same. I did not find this out until later and we when we decided to seperate the lies came full circle (Army wives talk) I never looked back, why? You can nevr win tht trust back! There is always somebody that is in it to win it and the other is just looking to see what they can get away with!
So sorry, just my 2 cents...but real talk? Since then? Men come and go because of it! :wuakala:

Nick Nack · by **Nick Nack** on Mon, Jul 21 2008, 11:56 PM

ur1nonly wrote:mmmmkay, why would u say that?

My bad, I didn't read the thread right... i thought he was talking about "taking a break". That's why I put seperation in quotations. Fuck "taking a break."

you got me over here explaining myself :lol:

ur1nonly · by **ur1nonly** on Tue, Jul 22 2008, 12:32 AM

i dont mean to jack ur thread rene but since we're all talking about seperation, and its something im going through right now...... i wanna ask something.

raven up there says

raven116 wrote:Seperation works if both persons state that this is going to be a reflection time.

so, what if only one person wants a seperation? the other person doesnt agree to it, and wants to fix things while still being together. how do u explain to them that its better to think about things being apart?

Lonewolf · by **Lonewolf** on Tue, Jul 22 2008, 1:16 AM

^ ^ It's all good. I'm right behind you on this one. . 'cause I think I know where you're coming from.

Dacia, l o l . . She said some big words there :LMAO:

Balam99 · by **Balam99** on Tue, Jul 22 2008, 4:22 PM

That's fucken nasty,I wouldn't take the bitch back.

Jacky · by **Jacky** on Wed, Oct 15 2008, 2:50 PM

I WAS WITH SOME ONE I REALLY LOVED WE WENT OUR SEPARATED WAYS BCUZ WE WANNED 2 SEE IF OUR FELLING WERE STRONG. WE STARED HAGING OUT AGAIN N I SAW A HICKY ON HIS NECK, BUT I DIDNT ASK HIM ABOUT THAT.

BUT WHAT IM TRAIN 2 SAY IS WHAT MY MOM TELL ME "LO QUE NO FUE EN TU ANO NO FUE TU DANO"

NaughtyFreak · by **NaughtyFreak** on Mon, Dec 15 2008, 10:16 AM

LA VERDAD MENTE NO SE NI QUE DICIR IT DEPENDS IF YOU REALLY LOVE THAT PERSON LIKE FOR INSTANCE IF YAW HAD A SERIOUS DOWN TO EARTH RELATIONSHIP YOU KNOW....AND IN THAT CASE IF HE SLEPT WIT ANOTHER GIRL AFTER THE TWO BROKE UP THAN I IN THAT SITUATION WOULD NEVER GO BACK OUT WITH THE DUDE BUT I WOULD HAVE NEVER REGRET GOING OUT WITH THE GUY BECAUSE IF IT WAS SOMETHING SERIOUS THAN TO ME THAT MEANS HE WAS ONE OF THE MOST BEATIFUL PERSON I EVER MET THAT MADE ME FEEL GOOD INSIDE. AND YEAH "THAT PERSON" IS RIGHT ( NO OFFENSE) IT DEPENDS WHY THE COUPLE BROKE UP...! HOPE I HELPED!

Lonewolf · by **Lonewolf** on Mon, Dec 15 2008, 2:42 PM

Jacky wrote: "LO QUE NO FUE EN TU ANO NO FUE TU DANO"

LMFAO

English translation..

"WHAT WAS NOT IN YOUR ANUS, DID YOU NO HARM"

ur1nonly · by **ur1nonly** on Thu, Dec 18 2008, 11:28 PM

Lonewolf wrote:
Jacky wrote: "LO QUE NO FUE EN TU ANO NO FUE TU DANO"

LMFAO

English translation..

"WHAT WAS NOT IN YOUR ANUS, DID YOU NO HARM"

LMAO!! pinche rene..... u know what she meant dude, no le inventes!

Lonewolf · by **Lonewolf** on Fri, Dec 19 2008, 9:46 PM

ur1nonly wrote:
Lonewolf wrote:
Jacky wrote: "LO QUE NO FUE EN TU ANO NO FUE TU DANO"

LMFAO

English translation..

"WHAT WAS NOT IN YOUR ANUS, DID YOU NO HARM"

LMAO!! pinche rene..... u know what she meant dude, no le inventes!

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