i have a homie...lucas..he's hella cute and hella tight a really good homies except this whole hittin me thing....he plays right but it hurts...hes all a bad ass and all that so he thinks its cool right but it irritates me to the point where i tell him that if he dont stop then im not kickin it with him no more....ugh it irritates me cuz im kinda already attatched to him as a homie so it wont be that easy to jus not kick it with anymore... ..anywayz...hopefully he'll get better hopefully :Rosa:

hmm, a guy has been hitting you? Thats not very cool, although, i know he is playing around. Wouldn't you prefer someone to be gentel and respect your body?!? Or maybe i am too old to understand that youth these days..lol :hmm:

I'll tell ya what, as a woman, one of the best qualities youll have in life is to be able to speak your mind..so dont be afriad to speak up to him

Lowrider56 wrote:No, not cool at all..playing or not playing. Tell him you don't like it and want him to stop. if he doesn't stop, find someone else who will appricate you more!

I agree! :idea:

My friend Felipe and I always used to play fight all the time, but we were gentle about it. He would never just hit me to the point where I was uncomfortable with it. You need to let him know that your not cool with the situation so he can stop being rough. Maybe he likes you and he thinks that they're "love taps"...I dunno!

Dang, just imagine when he is pissed off one day and decides to take it out on you and knock you out! a true "homie" respects you and does not cause you any harm. :idea:

^Juarol wrote:Dang just imagine when he is pissed off one day and decides to take it out on you and knock you out! a true "homie" respects you and does not cause you any harm. :idea:

Very true!!! I loved play fighting with Felipe because it would usually go too far I knew that he would never hurt me for real because he didn't hit me just out of the blue! MAN I MISS THOSE DAYS!!!

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true true and i tell him to stop...all the time and he has calmed down alot i guess its hard to break habbits....who knos lets jus see what happens

hey, we just learn with time chica, take it easy and enjoy life.

HEY I DO THIS TO LONGERITO HE JUST GETS MAD AND STARTS GETTING MAD AND HE JUST GOES AND SOKE HIS PILLOW TO GET HIS ANGER OUT


~HE HAS ANGER ISSUES HAVE U PPLZ NOTICE THAT~

dam sounds kind of like my ex vato...like we would play around and he would punch me in my arma nd i got mad and said dang im not one of ur homeboys im ur girl..and he jus played too rough with me like dang..i dont like that either so mija i think u should be nice about it like one day be kickin it and be like i got something to tell u and be like i kno we homies and everything pero i would like it if u wouldnt hit me like im aboy...or algo like that....aight well good luck mija....

thats not a friend..