Pika_Guerita wrote:jealousy is a bitch...it eats me up inside....just thinking about things....

I know how that feels :rosa: Cheer up, better days are coming, right? Stay positive is the advise I was given.

I would have to say women show jealousy more easily. I'm not really a jealous person-not as much, time has changed things I guess. I would say that our 1st yr. we had a 'problem' with it. I laid it down straight and it's been that way since-working or not I have always made sure his dinner is ready when he gets home, that the house is clean, I've been to hell and back with his family and he knows that noone will do what I do. Like I've told him if you decide one day you want to be with someone else go for it, but I won't be here waiting to see if you come back-once you're out, then that's the day que tu ya fuiste. I would have to say that he is more of a jealous person than I am-I don't pull shit on him because I wouldn't want it done to me,but that's just how he is.

caker wrote: Like I've told him if you decide one day you want to be with someone else go for it, but I won't be here waiting to see if you come back-once you're out, then that's the day que tu ya fuiste.

same with my husband and i... we have the same sort of thing

brwn_eyes wrote:I think guys are women can be equally jealous at times.

II don't like when people say, "i'm not jealous because i trust the person i'm with" I don't think that has anything to do with trusting your partner! I think a little jealousy shows that you care about the person your with.....you can trust them and still care when someone else seems to be trying to make a move!

sip sip i agree but at the same time ppl can over do the jealousy thing and then that’s when I have a problem you know when they say you seen him looking at you did you smile at him geeez.... I smile because he opend the door like saying gracias for opening the door grrr and then they make all this sanerio that never even happened salen con que you wanted to talk to him huh you didn’t even have to say anything y se notava omg that’s when I give it a cut and go my way peace out home boy see ya later

i think its pretty even tho serio..
but i picked rukas cuz we do tend to get out
of hand more that the vatos tho..

GONZO wrote:^ ^ You forgot to vote Homeboy


I'm a jealous mothafocker . . straight up . . don't give me no tease treatment smiling and rapping with someone else 'cause I will turn and walk. If you treat me like that from the get go, then what can I expect from you later on? Sabes que, "AL RATO" aqui la dejamos. Move on is the way I behave.

Are you talking about jealousy or getting disrespected?

Ms.pisces wrote:

brwn_eyes wrote:I think guys are women can be equally jealous at times.

II don't like when people say, "i'm not jealous because i trust the person i'm with" I don't think that has anything to do with trusting your partner! I think a little jealousy shows that you care about the person your with.....you can trust them and still care when someone else seems to be trying to make a move!

sip sip i agree but at the same time ppl can over do the jealousy thing and then that’s when I have a problem you know when they say you seen him looking at you did you smile at him geeez.... I smile because he opend the door like saying gracias for opening the door grrr and then they make all this sanerio that never even happened salen con que you wanted to talk to him huh you didn’t even have to say anything y se notava omg that’s when I give it a cut and go my way peace out home boy see ya later

oh i know what u mean sindy. i hate when they get all jealous because u do a little smile or even just look at someone else. thats just wrong, theres nothing with smiling or saying hi or looking

pues I think that its the same too..All I kno is Im really not the jealous type..my ex vato would say I didnt care about him cuz I never got jealous....but there is times where I do get jealous like if he is talkin to another hyna who he knos likes him or if he lats other hynas touch on him...I mean if is a homita hug..then I let that slide..I usually hold it in untill he ask me whts up lol then I may tell him...but then I dont want to tell cuz sum vatoz get happy when thay see there hyna all jealous n shit..I dont kno lol...