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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sat, May 17 2008, 9:50 PM    Post subject:  I never expected this. Reply with quote

My Readers Have you Ever felt like nobody likes you, like if you wanted to die or commit suicide over problems. Yeah, maybe you have or maybe you haven't....anywho.. I am saying this because I've felt like this because of stupid ass females that try to fuck with me. Let me get to the point, this is about one of my best friends since middle school... This friend tried to commit the unthinkable all over a guy named... a guy named israel. A few weeks ago he used to send his homies to go talk to her and tell her that he really cared about her. and she used to get happy and excited..because she was always a depressed little innocent girl who just wanted to be happy in life, but because of problems at home...she never had a smile on her face unless I made her smile...anyway, when she told me about it..of course I was happy for her. Because after all, who wouldn't be happy for someone like that. Sometimes she would come over and all she would seem to talk about was israel, israel, and israel... Israel this and israel that. Some days later I found out from someone that israel knew my friend liked him and the only reason he said he was into her was basically because he was using her for the money and his reput -ation for breaking a girls corazon. I told her myself when i spoke to her on the phone, that he was playing with her feelings, and you know what she said? These were her exact words. "Vidal, you've been such a great friend, and to tell me such a bullshit lie hurts me. I don't believe you, or will I ever...as of right now you're nothing to me....fuck you". I kept trying to talk to her, but she never bothered to.. the look she would give me....such an icy, hatred look everytime we'd come across eachother. Yesterday I was walking around the school campus with a friend when I saw this supposed "prince charming of her"..kissing some other girl...what should I do? Beat the shit out of him...nah, why bother getting my hands dirty over some girl who hates me now. I did the next best thing, I asked my friend for his phone so I could take a quick picture of them kissing, and I sent it to her. The subject was "Sorry you had to find out like this - vidal". About 5 minutes later I recieve a phone call from her...she was crying hysterically....then I heard a click. I tried calling her back but she wouldn't pick up....I was scared... Now it's today, around 4.00 PM she comes over crying her heart out.....telling me she was sorry, literally she got on her knees and apologized over and over... "I'm sorry I didn't believe you..." I picked her up from the floor and hugged her for minutes.. I tried to calm her down, but it was just hard.....I guess this was the very first time she'd been hurt to badly. She wasn't the type of girl who'd just get with anyone, every guy wanted to get with her...but she never payed attention until this guy finally came along. I left her at my house while I went to the liquor store to buy some chips and soda's for us..since that usually get her happy. When I came back and walked into the living room I saw her with a kitchen knife on her wrist.... I grabbed and took it away...and told her. "Why the fuck are you doing this shit?!" and I cried. She was really pale, and she told me she loved him and she couldn't believe what was happening...she stayed a couple of hours and she then said she had to go.

Lets hope she'll be okay.


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her [9:59 P.M.]: phss im never letting you go..
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aha Y0UR MiNE.. jUP Mi0.. S0 fCK EVERY0NE ELSE.. CUZ i L0VE
Y0U & iM G0NNA BE WiTH Y0U f0REVER. Y0UR tHE 0NE f0R ME.

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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sat, May 17 2008, 10:11 PM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

chalez con eso that's a crazy story
hope your homegirl gets over him,
well i know she will con el tiempo
ya se le pasara, ya que la mejor medecina
es el tiempo


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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sat, May 17 2008, 10:14 PM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

Damn, That's something else... I personally don't think I would of gone far as to show her a picture of her ex kissing another girl... but after telling you that she didn't believe you, I can understand why you did. I guess it takes something like that to sock a person into reality. It had to of happen regardless...She would of found out eventually... the truth always finds the light.
Watching someone go though a bad heartache like that in front of your very eyes, is ... just the most overwhelming experience, imo. That's l cool of you to be looking out for her, Vidal. I'm sure you'll be there to comfort her... also make sure to talk to her Friends, to keep constant contact with her.. to keep her company and cheer her up. It would be sad for someone young to lose their life over some loser.


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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sat, May 17 2008, 10:17 PM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

This girl needs help asap. I would let her parents or someone know she is having thoughts about being sucidal. Being depressed and hurt is one thing, attempting or thinking about killing yourself is another.
My freind tried to committimg sucide when we were in highschool. She tried overdoseing on pills because her boyfrind broke up with her. Luckly they pumped her stomach in time. Her sister attempted just a few years later. Usually people like that need a lot of attention and have serious emotional issues going on at home.
To me trying to commit is selfish, i would let an adult or family know, even if she isnt serious and wouldnt really do it because its NOT ok to fuck around like that.

PS. Life is full of bombs. Its not going to be the first time she is going to go through a heart ache or a let down. Life is full of upsets, in the work force, at home with your family. We live and we learn. We all face that reality, she will get over it...


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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sat, May 17 2008, 11:24 PM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

you should go check up on her....now...serio vato


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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sat, May 17 2008, 11:32 PM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

I'ma keep a close eye on her, she promised me she wouldn't do it...but there are still doubts in the back of my mind.

I won't tell her parents, because they'll go ballistic and put her ass in a mental hospital... but what I will do is tell her sister to watch over her....she'll talk some sense into her, and talk to her about it.

The thing is that some of us go through so much, stress over school, family problems...and now this? I didn't think she was like that...but sometimes this can overpower you if you're weak... I guess she just couldn't take it...luckily I came in time and took the knife away.

y, yeah elmo I've been calling every hour to see how shes doing...She'll be okay.


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her [9:59 P.M.]: phss im never letting you go..
i'll be bugging you if your not with me.. cuz you know what?
aha Y0UR MiNE.. jUP Mi0.. S0 fCK EVERY0NE ELSE.. CUZ i L0VE
Y0U & iM G0NNA BE WiTH Y0U f0REVER. Y0UR tHE 0NE f0R ME.

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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sun, May 18 2008, 6:43 AM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

wow..... sad story. im glad she didnt do such stupid thing and shes doing fine. tell her to give herself time, and im sure she'll get over it, even though it may not be easy. im glad she has u chicano, si no, i dont even wanna think about it.


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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sun, May 18 2008, 1:50 PM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

[Cool] I'm with Normies, that young lady needs some serious professional help. Sounds like her mental health is fragile. She seems to be very unaware of what real love is, and what its not! Also she is behaving foolishly in trying to injure herself. You do not ever hurt yourself or anyone else, over a perceived slight in love, that is crazy! Be careful Chicano about being alone with her in your home, for obvious legal reasons, because if something were to happen to her while shes with you, and she hurts herself, you may get part of the blame, take care!


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View Single PostView Single Post PostPosted: Sun, May 18 2008, 4:15 PM    Post subject:   Reply with quote

Vidal you should encourage her to get some help it would be terrible if she did hur herself over this chump....I had a friend that killed himself at 14 over some stupid girl I wish I could've have done something to help prevent his death but unlike your friend he never let on that he was hurting that much or gave any signs that he would hurt himself, but all his troubles became real clear when the letter he wrote was found by his mom [Crying or Very sad]


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