Nick Nack wrote:Fuck a "seperation".

mmmmkay, why would u say that?

Lonewolf wrote:So what I'm understanding from some of your reads is that a separation is a time to reflect, and no trying out with someone else is permitted, right?

Umm yeah!
Seperation works if both persons state that this is going to be a reflection time. Meaning they are taking this time to really do INVENTORY! Taking and embracing culpability and accopuntabil;ity for any wrong they may have contributed to the deconstruction to the relationship.
Looking or stating falling for another or sleeping with another is a falsehood!
I am going to throw myself out there as an example.
I fell in love very young and married young to me imo..at 21 ...he was in the military I knew the demands of the job...it meant moving alot and having to stay behind alot (If he was stationed in demilitarized zones_) which he was and I stayed behind.
I was the perfect wife, I kep the financial ned, worked p/t and used this time to get my college degree and seldom went out...I took care of our son however he could not do the same. I did not find this out until later and we when we decided to seperate the lies came full circle (Army wives talk) I never looked back, why? You can nevr win tht trust back! There is always somebody that is in it to win it and the other is just looking to see what they can get away with!
So sorry, just my 2 cents...but real talk? Since then? Men come and go because of it!

ur1nonly wrote:mmmmkay, why would u say that?

My bad, I didn't read the thread right... i thought he was talking about "taking a break". That's why I put seperation in quotations. Fuck "taking a break."


you got me over here explaining myself

^ ^ It's all good. I'm right behind you on this one. . 'cause I think I know where you're coming from.


Dacia, l o l . . She said some big words there :LMAO:

That's fucken nasty,I wouldn't take the bitch back.