<center>People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. </center>

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.

LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


-- Brian A. Chalker

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When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.

true, i learned how to shoot a gun with my former season boyfrind :jeje: --what a lessson!

aww, sounds like a great story Lowrider. If i was a guy i would have joined the military (not in these times) I wish i had that long term traveling experince. I really want that, i was thinking of joing the peace corps acutally, just a thought. I am not a routine kinda gal, very free spirited.. :lalala:

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this is really really nice!!!!!!! :Clap:

LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

I guess thats why my dad is like he is, god made my dad like that for me, im confused about it

dang thatz cool pedro..I didnt kno that...puez thnkz lol

Funny you post this Pete- you know I've often heard that people enter our lives for a reason-sometimes unknown to us, but they enter for a reason nonetheless. I believe they enter to teach me something or I enter to teach them something. Some people even though I still don't know what the reason is-well I thank God for meeting them because there's just certain people who put a smile on my face, just because-maybe it's their warm heart or their sense of humor-who knows.

^^That is so true!! There are some people who I think fall into the 'Season' category-you know at one time you talked with them and had good times and now for whatever reason you just don't speak to each other anymore.